HOW TO ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE
Take a look at yourself - inside and out. Where do you live, what
job do you have, how do you relate to your friends and family? What
interests do you pursue, what adventures do you have?
What do you truly want from life? Do you want wealth and success,
happiness and peace of mind? Do you want a family and a yard , a
yacht or a sports car? Where are you going? Do you have a particular
goal or are you just wandering through life?
You can accomplish anything you want in life - that's true. Once you
have a particular goal, you can fulfill that desire by
straightforward commitment and total conviction.
But what if you don't know what you want? Maybe your goals are small
ones - like losing some weight, or buying a new car. Maybe getting a
promotion of finding a mate.
Whether you want a bigger apartment or want to be a corporation
president, any avenue of prosperity and achievement is open to you
if it is truly what you want.
No goal is too small; no dream is too big. And even if you aren't
clear on your desires, you can tap into your subconscious mind to
get the answers and to find the paths to success.
Can you change your life - do you want to? Can you picture yourself
as your most perfect image of accomplishment? How does it feel? If
you have the desire to attain goals, the commitment to follow
through and the ability to creatively imagine yourself in the
position you dream of, you are more than halfway there.
The most successful leaders and artists throughout history have
followed specific paths and attained their hearts' desires. Keep an
open mind and a hopeful outlook - then change your thinking. Put on
the clothes of success. Act as though you already have accomplished
your desires. Then let the reality catch up.
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Take a choice: money, health, physical energy, beauty, creativity,
recognition, power, adventure, contentment, achievement,
self-expression, authority, love, peace of mind, enlightenment.
Would you like any of these? If you are like most people today, you
probably want ALL of these.
But if you search your true desires, you might find that there are a
few things you want more than others. And, if you keep going in your
search, you'll find one desire that has been with you your whole
lifetime and is the one path you need to follow.
Although money is the obvious desire, it is usually not the final
goal. Indeed, money can, and does buy happiness - up to a point.
Once you have enough money to be financially secure or to purchase
the material objects you want, the true desire might be something
Love is the goal of every person's heart. Whether it is love of a
mate, or a family, or respect and recognition from peers and fellow
workers, love is the ageless pursuit. The mystics say that love is
the sole purpose of life- to give love and to find it.
But love comes in many forms. Not only is there the overt display of
affection or true inner feelings, but there is the self-respect and
inner contentment that goes with accomplishment. For some people,
true peace of mind will never be attained until they complete some
creative tasks or achieve certain heights in business.
Many people seek the authority that comes with a good position in a
job. Along with that can come recognition and fame. Although you may
want the money that is associated with high management levels, many
people simply seek that satisfaction of working from the inner
The goal of every person regardless of background and material
desires, is health. A sound body is the gift that will get you to
the other goals. Even a new diet and exercise plan can give you more
energy - the energy you'll need to accomplish success.
Adventure and travel is a driving force for many people. They may
seek jobs that involve travel, or they may be looking forward to
taking time off to visit the exotic ports and see the other side of
the world. If you don't want a long journey, perhaps you'd just like
a few weeks in a sunny resort or the luxury of a summer and winter
vacation each year.
And then there is creativity and self-expression. What about the
book you're going to write or the watercolor class you'd like to
take? Creative expression is a wonderful inner release that boosts
confidence and gives you something to accomplish. Finally,
regardless of wealth and health, expression and love, everyone is
looking for peace of mind. That's not to say emptiness of mind, but
to be rid of petty worries and confusion, to be finished with fears
and live in total awareness. It surely is the ultimate lifetime
CATCH UP WITH YOURSELF
Now's the time to evaluate your life and your desires. Go ahead and
test yourself - nobody's looking. Try to find out what your inner
desires really are. Once you know, you can formulate a plan of
action, and then achieve your goals.
Right now, write down three things you want. Don't spend time
thinking about them - just write them down. You may be surprised at
what you want. Can you see any relation to the types of desires most
What accomplishment are you most proud of? What make you happy -
happy enough to be content, to feel totally relaxed, and to slide
back with a smile on your face.
Without dwelling on failures, mistakes, or past ill feelings,
quickly list the important accomplishments or your life. Think about
the places you went to, the relationships you encountered, the
education you received. Consider your job changes and positions, and
the achievements related to work.
Put a star next to the most important accomplishments of your life.
Is there any correlation with the list of the three things you want
Before you go any further with your life, make a list for your
future. Write it down - don't just think it. What would you like to
accomplish in the next ten years? A new house, a high-paying
position, a home in a new city, a trip around the world?
Break that list down into those things you'd like to accomplish in
the next five years. Then make one further division into the next
six months. What can you do in the next few months to further you
towards your long-term goals?
- My most important desires are:
- In my lifetime, the most important things I've accomplished:
- If I looked back on my lifetime in 20 years, I'd like to have
- Within 10 years, I'd like to achieve:
- Within 5 years, I'd like to achieve:
- In the next six months to a year, these are the things I'm going to
do to work towards by goals:
Regardless of your family commitments or your personal
relationships; regardless of your business enterprises or any false
sense of achievement, what do you really want?
Give yourself credit for your past accomplishments, and give
yourself credit for your future achievements. You can and will
attain all your goals, both long-term and short-term if you approach
them in a step-by-step fashion and if you believe that they are
worthwhile for you.
YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE.
Although you can be considerate of your environment and all the
people in it, first consider yourself. Your well-being, your
happiness, your success. Make a pact with yourself right now that
you will achieve your goals. And make them realistic to reach. Then
one by one, make your own life the success it deserves.
BEFORE THE RACE - RELAX
An important step in achieving goals is to be able to relax. You'll
get nowhere is your body and mind are nervous and flighty, jumping
from one place or idea to another. In order to focus on your goal,
you must center your being.
Relaxation is the balance of the mental, spiritual and physical
aspects of yourself. Set aside time each day for deep relaxation -
not sleep, but relaxation. The state of deep relaxation is a state
of meditation. There are no thoughts in your mind. There are no
physical ills or discomforts. You breathe in deeply, allowing the
lungs to fill with fresh air, and you exhale all used and stale air.
The blood circulates amply throughout every part of your body. You
drift through space, ever towards your true destiny.
Exercise or sports is a good way to get into relaxation. The body
needs physical stimulation to pump blood into all its extremities,
and to give the heart a good workout. Exercise is a wonderful way to
let the mind relax, as you place your thoughts on the way your body
moves. For many people, sports and exercise are enjoyable ways to
feel alive, youthful, and fulfilled.
Then take time to relax. Lie down on your back with your arms out,
palms up. Your feet should be about two feet about. You might clench
your muscles first, then relax them. Allow your thoughts to drift,
but don't get caught in them. Watch them go by, as if they belong to
If you have a special problem, tuck that in the back of your mind -
don't dwell on it up front. Let yourself and your emotions go.
Breathe out the negative feelings and emotions; breathe in positive,
life-giving air. Float freely. Relax. ASSUME THE BEST. Expect to
achieve; expect to accomplish your desires; expect to win. Accept
less, but push on to attain more. The higher your goals, the further
The moon is no problem, nor are the neighboring planets. Soon human
beings will see close-ups of other star and galaxies. Don't go for
less that your full potential. Shoot for the universe. You owe
yourself nothing less.
And aside from the universe, keep yourself on Earth, in your office
or studio, working closer to those goals you want to attain.
You have a right to be happy. You have the means to be successful.
You can succeed in what you desire.
Always keep in mind the fact that you are in transit, attaining your
goals, moving through life as though you are an actor, and the
setting is a stage.
Keep your thoughts firmly planted on prosperity, good fortune and
lucky breaks. Assume that you will, in fact, nearly have
accomplished your goals. It is with that attitude that successful
DO YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL?
Within you is the power to accomplish anything you want. But it will
not happen if you are not tuned into your true desires. Don't fool
yourself into compromising for less than a complete goal. If you
want to be an artist, you may not be the world's most famous artist,
but if you have that inclination, you will be an artist. If you want
to succeed in business, you may not be another
financier/mega-millionaire, but you will succeed in your endeavors.
Most people need accomplishment feedback. After all, what's so great
about achieving something if nobody cares? And it's important to
receive that recognition and feel that love.
Set goals that you can achieve. Divide them into little tidbits that
you can accomplish every day, every month, every year. Set your
goals for success.
Then reap the rewards c constantly - each step of the way. Pat
yourself on the back for a job well done, then move on. Start
immediately to accomplish the goals you have set. In fact, give
yourself a task that you can finish by tomorrow. Think of yourself
as a success in your endeavors. Dwell on the idea that you are
compelled to accomplish your goals, and live and breathe them until
you have them.
Can you see yourself a year from now, having achieved a few goals?
Can you make the decision and commitment to become successful in
your desires? Then you have the potential to accomplish anything you
THE POWER OF SELF-IMAGE
Visualizing yourself as a success in your field of endeavor is the
inside tip in accomplishing anything you want. If you can
specifically imagine being the person you want to become, you will
attain that reality.
Forgive yourself. Just as you would another person, tell yourself
that it's okay for all those mistakes, or the should-haves that keep
popping up in your mind. Don't dwell on the past and get blocked by
events from long ago.
Let go of fears and anxieties. Although it certainly is easier said
than done, learn to change negative thoughts into a positive action.
Are you afraid of poverty - that you'll never make ends meet, or
never buy that house, or be destitute once you stop working? Then
turn that into the positive goal of financial security.
Do people make you anxious? Maybe you feel inferior, not as good as
others. Everybody has feelings of inadequacy. Just turn them around
into positive goals. You may be paralyzed by the thoughts that you
are unattractive. It is your thoughts that make it a reality. Change
your modes of behavior and you will make friends. In most cases, it
is your own negative thoughts that cause you to stay stuck in
whatever place you're in. Keep moving. Take the risks. You may need
to change your job, or move to another city. You might take up a
sport or hobby. Become active in your life - participate. And you
will grow into the image you see for yourself.
SUCCESS IN BUSINESS
Perhaps the most sought-after goal in our present society is success
in business. Whether you want to be promoted into high paying
management positions, or wish to start your own independent
enterprise, knowledge of the business world is important.
As you plan a course of action towards accomplishing your goal, keep
in mind the small goals that put you closer to the end. And be
prepared to change often. You may need to change companies, or take
the opportunities in other departments as those positions open.
Create an aura of success around you. People who are successful
dress that way. Even if you're not in a high-income bracket, act as
though you have already achieved - without being egotistical or
Develop an expertise in an area. Don't keep special information to
yourself, but be quick to learn all there is about your position and
the tasks surrounding getting that job done. Capitalize on your
strengths, and let others help you develop your weaknesses into
Get to know the people in the company and the people in the
industry. Read all the trade journals and magazines relating to your
company. Make appointments with people who are successful in your
field and learn from them.
You need to have a total commitment to succeed in business. Most
people who make it to the executive boardroom put in long hours,
often at the sacrifice of everything else. Regardless of the
physical effort involved, you must mentally be engrossed in your
business and the company enterprises.
In order to help yourself develop fully, you might seek a mentor,
someone who will offer you time and teach you the ropes. This person
usually is someone who believes in your ability, someone who you can
develop a mutually beneficial business relationship with.
Some people become friendly with all their co-workers and find that
is a way to advance. But don't try to be extroverted if it's not
real to you. Most people who successfully run their own businesses
are individuals who like to work alone.
As you increase your activities and accomplishments, you increase
your potential to reach higher. The more you achieve, the more
confidence you develop to achieve more. You don't have to be the
same as everyone else and fit like a vegetable in a patch. Be
unique, different. Capitalize on your own self-image. Don't fall
victim to self-consciousness. And trust your intuition. Hunches and
inner feelings usually are the best route to travel, regardless of
what seems to be the logical choice. Make decisions quickly and with
firmness. A true leader will handle these responsibilities
efficiently. That's what makes you different and why you'll rise to
Be persistent in attaining your goals, but be open and sincere. Many
people choose not to increase their own accomplishment ambitions. It surely is
the achievements that will give you the right-of-way to be successful.
If you are having personal difficulties with any co-workers, try to
know more about these people from a personal angle. Be interested in
them and their accomplishments and goals. You might be able to turn
opposition into friendship.
Above all, use your integrity. If the goal is not worthy of your
inner desires, it will be hard to attain. If your methods are not
sincere, you will receive opposition. If your actions are not
honest, you will suffer the consequences. Turn all negative
qualities into positive aspects - then watch yourself achieve.
TIPS ON ATTAINING WEALTH
Many people want money as a primary goal. And there certainly is
nothing wrong with desiring money. But first, be sure that your true
goal is money. Can you live, breathe, eat, and sleep money? Do you
dream about money, and want it more than anything?
For true money-seekers, you must be your own boss. The great
money-makers all started and ran their own businesses. And, even
though it seems as though all the good ideas have already been
taken, there are plenty out there.
The secret of the wealthiest people is to find a special need and
fill it. Like quick-food chains; like supermarkets; like electronic
games. Whether you invent a new toy or gadget, or see a spot to
market special items in a new way, the world is open to true
entrepreneurs. And they do make it.
LEARN YOUR TRADE
Almost any goal you choose - whether riches and material abundance
or spiritual attainment - requires learning. How much education do
you have? Do you want more? Perhaps your goal is to get another
degree or to secure a special license.
There are countless opportunities to learn more about your own
industry or to learn about a new skill. Not only do you have the
colleges and universities, but there are many trade schools,
correspondence schools, and special groups that teach skills - at
very reasonable prices.
KEEP THE END IN MIND
What do you need to know to get to where you want to be? You may not
need a degree, but the actual experience. So you'd need to change
jobs or accept a part-time job at night to develop your skills.
More than ever, people are leaving their present occupations to
learn a new trade and then starting at the bottom again to be happy
in their work. Maybe you'll need to put in extra hours at work now
so that you can save money to take the time off next year.
Even though most entry level positions are offered to the younger
people, you can find many companies willing to give you a chance to
change your occupation. Many times you might find an older master
willing to apprentice you to learn the skill or trade.
Once you're enrolled to learn new skills, put everything towards
learning. Apply yourself one hundred percent. Take advantage of
asking questions and getting criticism from teachers and fellow
students. Read everything you can study well. It is your developing
expertise that will get you ahead and closer to your goal.
It's always a good time to learn more. Even if you are happy in your
job, expanding yourself through education is a very rewarding
activity. Take dancing or tennis, gourmet cooking or sculpture. Any
activity is taught and shared by many enthusiasts.
STOP WASTING TIME
Consider the most important things you need to accomplish. These are
high priorities. Then think about those things that seem to take up
a lot of time and get you nowhere. Those are the low priorities.
Understand what's important to achieve and do those things first.
Let go of all the busywork for paperwork that piles up. It's better
for you to stack those low priorities somewhere else and finish the
important material than to spend time clearing your desk to get down
to the essential things.
You'll be noticed more quickly for the big things you achieve than
for keeping paper flowing. Don't let co-workers waste your time with
chitchat if you've got things to accomplish. Save that for lunch
hours or for after work social activities.
Handle paper once; decide the action and finish with it. Keep
interruptions to a minimum and delegate responsibilities. Although
you'd like to believe you're indispensable to the job and you are
the only one to take care of many things, you can teach someone else
and move on to your own goal achievements.
What are you waiting for? Few opportunities are thrown at you; you
have to create the right positions and situations to move up. Make
lists of things you want to accomplish and do them.
If you're busy in an office situation, make daily lists and reward
yourself with praise upon completion. Catch yourself achieving.
Concentrate on what you're doing and do one thing at a time. But do
it quickly and handle the next thing. Be efficient in telephone
calls, maybe taking them at appointed times or calling back at your
Don't generate copies or correspondence that make you look like you
are doing things. Your superiors will know what you accomplish. Be
busy doing important things rather than writing about what you've
And take the time for physical exercise. It will energize you - not
take away from your effectiveness. It relaxes your mind and
stimulates your capacity to achieve.
An inner core of all accomplishment is the positive energy from the
subconscious. If your subconscious mind has tapped into your goal
and believes it is good for you, your energies will direct
themselves towards that goal.
You can consciously create circumstances and conditions of
environment and physical presence. But it is that level behind the
outwardly physical that directs your true being. When the
subconscious mind accepts an idea, the inner power will complete it.
That's why you can accomplish anything you want - by creating all
outward manifestations to trigger your subconscious into action. As
you decide on your goals and write them down, repeat them twice a
day out loud. This in essence brings it to the inner level.
When you think about your goals and desires, the subconscious hears
it. So direct your energies - both outer and inner - to your goal
with one-pointed devotion. In that way, you can control your
In order to connect to your inner self, relax - let your thoughts
go. Feel that part within you that actually makes the decisions -
the reflexes, the instincts, the intuition and hunches. Let your
mind be quiet from its usual chatter.
Some people present problems to their inner consciousness by asking
themselves a question before they fall asleep. Often the answer is
in their minds when they wake up.
Clarity rids confusion. If you find you're filled with worries and
anxieties, spend the time to think them through. Approach them
logically, considering the consequences of all possible actions.
When you've made a decision, follow through and don't agonize over
Everybody has creative potential. And you don't have to be an artist
to be creative. Each moment of the day is creating your own self,
becoming your true inner person.
Let yourself look within. Release the handicaps of fear and anxiety
- even for a moment. You'll be relaxed and refreshed.
The same technique has been used by great inventors, financiers,
business people, political figures and enlightened beings: constant
repetition of the goal and the belief that you can attain it.
Never dwell on self-criticism or what you think are your
inadequacies. Instead, repeat your goals and the qualities that will
make you successful.
Write out your outstanding goal. In a few words, describe what you
want to attain. Then write what you will do to achieve that. What
energies and efforts will you trade for that success?
Give yourself a specific date to accomplish this goal, and specific
times to carry out the interim steps. Put this paper or note card in
a visible place - such as taped to the mirrors - so you can review
it and repeat it at least twice a day.
It is those people who convince themselves that they are failures.
And successful people believe that they will rise to the top and
will achieve their goals. Believe in yourself. You are everything
worth believing in.
Form the habit of accomplishment. With every step you take and every
decision you make, bring yourself closer to your goals. Walk through
your life with this sense of direction and they will come to you.
Develop self-confidence and esteem. Assert yourself and acquire all
the excellent qualities and traits you admire most. What is your
ultimate goal? How to you see yourself? Be specific. Precisely
specific. Visualize the place you live in - the rooms, the paintings
on the walls, the furniture and swimming pool. Consider the family
situation and financial stability. Think about the place you'll be
Then look at yourself. What clothes are you wearing and what do you
look like? Consider your physique, your hair, the condition of your
Then think about the things you do. What sports do you play, what
groups do you belong to?
As if you've already accomplished your desires, look back and see
what you did to get to where you are. Think about the classes you
took, the jobs you worked at, and the places you moved to. Think
about the places you've traveled to and the friends you've made.
Be comfortable with your new self-image. Put it on for size and
change your fantasy to adjust perfectly to you. Why don't you live
as though you're already there? What's stopping you from becoming
the person you are totally capable of becoming?
BECOME YOUR FULL POTENTIAL
Keep your goals and ambitions to yourself - don't share them with
anyone, not yet. Write them down and refer to them. Look back at
what you wrote in a month, then in a few months. Work on them
constantly, and don't be afraid to revise and rewrite. Goals are
Think in possibilities. What is possible for you to achieve in the
next six months? And go for it. Don't play it safe with what you'll
probably achieve anyway. Push yourself to go further. The rewards
Feel the winning feeling. Feel successful already. Try on the
clothes of total accomplishment and peace of mind. Live each day as
though you have already reached your goals. There are always new
ones to place in front of yourself.
Don't announce your goals. This will set you up for failure. Even is
you make a pact with yourself to attain a specific goal, don't
chastise yourself if you don't make it. It may have been unrealistic
or you may not have tried hard enough.
Do it yourself. There is nobody better to help you achieve your
desires than you. Tap into the power of the subconscious and
practice being your own fantasy.
Then go ahead. Act on your convictions. Follow them through with
devotions and then reap the rewards. You CAN accomplish anything you
want in life.
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